Saturday, March 20, 2010

Why........

Marriage is an important institution of life; i agree. but why is it so that one needs to change a lot after marriage. Moreover why is it that a girl need to change the most and need to do all the adjustments. She is the one who has to leave her home and come to a new place amongst new people and have to live with them taking care of their feelings... And still she is the one who is being blamed not to take care of the other person feeling and is being made culprit of entering their so called space. Why is it that the girls are not allowed to come to home late nite and boys are being allowed to do so... Why is it being expected that if a girl is being asked a question then she has to answer it; but the same is not applicable for the boys... In general also When we say that girls and boys are same then why is that boys are allowed to one thing and the same thing is being debarred for the girls... this does not show the equality between the two gender. Why is it that a girls mother is more worried about her marriage rather than a boy's mother... Just think why...................

1 comment:

  1. Sweetie...girls and boys can only be brought close to equal, but can never be equal. No point debating because we all know what is that one thing bcoz of which parents are more worried about their daughters than boys...don't we?
    And if you are given full permission to stray out of house as long in the night as u want...would u urself be comfortable?? :) I know the reply :)
    And life does change for a guy as much as for a girl. Even they have to move from a 1 BHK to 2 BHK :) or leave a gang of frenz with whom they were living earlier and move on with wifey :)
    Ease down on ur comparison...and u'll be self satisfied :)...sach me...believe me :)

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